Hurt Partner

After an affair people are overwhelmed and unclear about how to recover. If you work with me I will provide you a roadmap & the support you need to recover.

When you discovered that your spouse/partner had been unfaithful you immediately fell into a free fall that felt endless. Describing “discovery” it is common to hear people say their world ended and I don’t know what’s real. One person told me, “finding out my husband cheated was like “leaning against a wall and the wall moving instead of supporting me as I thought it would”. Another person described it as, “jumping out of a plane with a parachute that doesn’t open”, as they imagine them self falling to earth with no way to stop.

When a person discovers their spouse has been unfaithful different emotions are experienced and many questions are asked but not readily answered. Often, men and women feel different emotions and ask different questions. Some of these are listed here.

From Discovery to Recovery we understand your needs and appreciate your differences.

Common Challenges
for Hurt Female Partners

  • you feel unloved, unwanted, unimportant
  • you feel emotions like anger, rage, sadness, depression, betrayal, anxiety and likely more
  • you feel you’re not good enough
  • you’re confused. Thinking he would always be faithful, now you don’t know who he is
  • you believe, once a cheater always a cheater and you’re afraid he’ll do it again
  • you wonder whether you should give him another chance

Common Challenges
for Hurt Male Partners

  • you feel emotions like anger, rage, sadness, depression, betrayal and likely more
  • you may want revenge
  • you feel disrespected
  • you feel not good enough
  • you feel less of a man, that you are not able to keep your wife happy/satisfied
  • you may feel like ending your marriage?
  • you worry that she’ll cheat again

Face-to-Face Counseling

Close Connections provides state of the art face-to-face individual and couple counseling that is designed to meet your specific needs. “From Discovery to Recovery”, Close connections specializes in treating infidelity. We will empower you to take back control of your life.

Remote Counseling

To make it easier for people to benefit from our support and expertise, Close Connections offers remote counseling through videoconferencing. Wherever you live, Close Connections is never far away. All you need is a computer or smartphone and an internet connection. We are only a click away.

Support Groups

Infidelity often results in people feeling isolated and misunderstood. Recovering from infidelity is easier when you are part of a community of people who understand what you’re going through. Close Connections is a community of like-minded people. We offer support groups for the hurt partner, for the participating partner, and for couples.

Emergency Support

We understand that you can be triggered or experience an intrusive thought at any time and a crisis can result. We are responsive and we offer special programmes to ensure that you never have to be alone. Close Connections is here for you when you need us!

What Our Clients Say

"David, I wanted to reach out on behalf of my wife & myself, to thank you for all your help.  Those early days of trauma seemed so long ago.  My wife & I are on our way to building a spiritual partnership now & finally are enjoying moments of joy. I believe you saved our marriage. Both my wife & I have the utmost respect for you & the work you did for us."

What Our Clients Say...

"We both really appreciate your help & guidance through this period in our lives. We wouldn’t be this far along without you. Some days are tougher than others but the direction is right."

What Our Clients Say...

"You asked me questions last night that I have never answered out loud before, so thanks for your patience as I verbally muddled my way through it. I admire your ability to identify patterns in people's behaviour. Thanks for everything."

What Our Clients Say...

"I remain truly grateful for your support as I work toward conquering my fears and insecurities.  Thank you for your patience, persistence, kindness and optimism."

What Our Clients Say...

"Thank you for your wonderful email. I get a lot of strength from you. I am happy it’s you that helps me battle my fears and insecurities.  This email will be a great reference for me during my low times."

What Our Clients Say...

"(My husband) and I are doing very well and I am grateful for your help, compassion, support, and time. We have come a very long way and could not have done it without you."

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