The Missing Link to Recovering from an Affair

The Missing Link to Recovering from an Affair

After discovering an affair, chances are that you are in immense pain. For financial or emotional reasons or both, you cannot afford to be in therapy for years figuring out your relationship issues. You need a quicker process that makes a meaningful recovery possible....
A Lesson Learned from a Spouse’s Affair

A Lesson Learned from a Spouse’s Affair

Recently I met with a man whose wife had an affair that ended several years ago. It was an honour to work with this couple and they made good progress in therapy. In fact, they can teach us an important lesson. In spite of the progress made, every now and then...
Your Heart Can’t Be in Two Places at the Same Time

Your Heart Can’t Be in Two Places at the Same Time

In my practice I meet with at least one partner each day who is having an affair and struggling with the decision of whether or not to work on their marriage. I typically ask them to describe their confusion and they almost always embark on a similar dialogue in which...
Your Crystal Ball

Your Crystal Ball

Imagine the relationship you would like to have with your partner. Now think about what you would have to do in order to have that relationship and how you would have to act towards your partner to make that relationship happen. You should not be a passive participant...
Too Little, Too Late

Too Little, Too Late

People who cheat are taking a risk and walking a fine line they frequently take it too far.  They believe that time is on their side and they find themselves caught in a web that leads them to a place where they say, “I don’t know what to do”, and they don’t. Many say...

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