Your Heart Can’t Be in Two Places at the Same Time

Your Heart Can’t Be in Two Places at the Same Time

In my practice I meet with at least one partner each day who is having an affair and struggling with the decision of whether or not to work on their marriage. I typically ask them to describe their confusion and they almost always embark on a similar dialogue in which...
Live Your Life to the Fullest! Why Not?

Live Your Life to the Fullest! Why Not?

If you asked anyone whether they’d like to live their life to the fullest, I expect their answer would be an ethusiastic “yes” (mine certainly would be). But sometimes it feels that a lot of people aren’t trying very hard to make it a reality. I was recently exploring...
Is an Affair an Illusion or a Solution?

Is an Affair an Illusion or a Solution?

Only 3% of affairs become committed relationships and, of those, 75% fail. This means there is only a 0.75% chance that an affair will become a long-term relationship. Are those odds you would gamble with? An affair is often perceived by the participating partner as a...
Single In The City: Season 2 Episode 5

Single In The City: Season 2 Episode 5

I recently was a guest on the television show, Single In The City, where “Host Laura Bilotta and Patrick examine both sides of the coin when it comes infidelity: first how to prevent it and how to repair the relationship and move on when it happens. Then later...
Tips for Celebrating During the Holiday Season

Tips for Celebrating During the Holiday Season

Another holiday season is here.  Many of us will be celebrating either Christmas or Hanukkah.  One holiday representing hope, while the other teaches us that miracles are possible.  Many of us look forward to this time of year but after an affair, anticipating time...

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