by David Feder | Jul 19, 2019 | Article, Featured
If you are cheating then you are a master at validating unacceptable behaviour. You have learned tricks and use them to justify poor choices. In addition you keep secrets about your other life, secrets about choices that are hurtful to the people who are closest to...
by David Feder | Jul 3, 2019 | Article, Featured
After discovering an affair, chances are that you are in immense pain. For financial or emotional reasons or both, you cannot afford to be in therapy for years figuring out your relationship issues. You need a quicker process that makes a meaningful recovery possible....
by David Feder | Apr 16, 2019 | Audio, Featured
I had a chance to have a great discussion with Doug from Emotional Affair Journey recently about why it can be so hard to stop having an affair. Here are a few things we talk about: What was your experience when you made the decision to end your emotional affair?How...
by David Feder | Nov 16, 2018 | Article, Featured
I recently had the opportunity to attend a one-day conference in Toronto in which the incomparable Esther Perel presented. The topic was “THE STATE OF AFFAIRS: A NEW CLINICAL APPROACH TO INFIDELITY”. The day was provoking and filled with extraordinary insights about...
by David Feder | Aug 20, 2018 | Article, Featured
Only 3% of affairs become committed relationships and, of those, 75% fail. This means there is only a 0.75% chance that an affair will become a long-term relationship. Are those odds you would gamble with? An affair is often perceived by the participating partner as a...