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Esther Perel & The State of Affairs

I recently had the opportunity to attend a one-day conference in Toronto in which the incomparable Esther Perel presented. The topic was “THE STATE...

Is an Affair an Illusion or a Solution?

Only 3% of affairs become committed relationships and, of those, 75% fail. This means there is only a 0.75% chance that an affair will become a...

The Problem with Social Media and Connection

With the emphasis that people are putting on social media we are losing the ability to communicate effectively. Staples of every day communication...

Single In The City: Season 2 Episode 5

I recently was a guest on the television show, Single In The City, where "Host Laura Bilotta and Patrick examine both sides of the coin when it...

Is Someone You Know Having an Affair? Read This Now!

If you, or someone you know is currently in the throes of an affair, READ THIS! What do people think?  Do they really believe they can...

Your Crystal Ball

Imagine the relationship you would like to have with your partner. Now think about what you would have to do in order to have that relationship and how you would have to act towards your partner to make that relationship happen. You should not be a passive participant...

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Keep a Balanced View of Your Partner

Finding out that your partner has had an affair often influences not only the way we feel toward our partner but it also effects the way we think about our partner. “Thought, feeling and action” are connected and the way we think about a person directly impacts the...

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Affair-Proof Your Relationship

While there is no known strategy that will guarantee that infidelity will not re-occur there are steps you can take to minimize the probability of it re-occurring. Some of these are provided below: Be sure to to maintain an open door policy with your partner that...

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Infidelity: Is the grass REALLY greener?

The numbers speak for themselves and the common beliefs about infidelity are just not true. Some cheaters say they are looking for love, others seek acceptance and others say they want to feel better.  Some want all of the above.  For most, something is...

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Too Little, Too Late

People who cheat are taking a risk and walking a fine line they frequently take it too far. Many say that their marriage is good and they are unable to identify any specific reasons why they should not end the affair and remain with their spouse. They are confused. Why?

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Meditations on Gratitude

“We learn the magical lesson that making the most of what we have turns it into more.” – taken from Codependent No More Say thank you, until you mean it. Thank G-d, life, and the universe for everyone and everything sent your way. Gratitude unlocks the fullness of...

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