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If You Are Cheating on Your Partner, You Are Cheating on Yourself!

If you are cheating then you are a master at validating unacceptable behaviour. You have learned tricks and use them to justify poor choices. In...

The Missing Link to Recovering from an Affair

After discovering an affair, chances are that you are in immense pain. For financial or emotional reasons or both, you cannot afford to be in...

What Makes it so Hard to End an Affair?

I had a chance to have a great discussion with Doug from Emotional Affair Journey recently about why it can be so hard to stop having an affair....

Esther Perel & The State of Affairs

I recently had the opportunity to attend a one-day conference in Toronto in which the incomparable Esther Perel presented. The topic was “THE STATE...

Is an Affair an Illusion or a Solution?

Only 3% of affairs become committed relationships and, of those, 75% fail. This means there is only a 0.75% chance that an affair will become a...

A Lesson Learned from a Spouse’s Affair

Recently I met with a man whose wife had an affair that ended several years ago. It was an honour to work with this couple and they made good progress in therapy. In fact, they can teach us an important lesson. In spite of the progress made, every now and then...

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Live Your Life to the Fullest! Why Not?

If you asked anyone whether they’d like to live their life to the fullest, I expect their answer would be an ethusiastic “yes” (mine certainly would be). But sometimes it feels that a lot of people aren’t trying very hard to make it a reality. I was recently exploring...

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Recovery Challenges for the Unfaithful Spouse

In another in my series of talks with Doug from EmotionalAffair.org, we discuss the many challenges that the unfaithful person faces in the affair recovery process, with an emphasis on the differences between unfaithful males and females. We also address...

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Getting in Touch with your Own Power

I had a great discussion with Doug from EmotionalAffair.org where we talk about how to find your power using my VISION method. VISION is an acronym I've developed to help betrayed spouses through the recovery process. The session begins with Doug reading an email from...

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What Makes it so Hard to End an Affair?

I had a chance to have a great discussion with Doug from Emotional Affair Journey recently about why it can be so hard to stop having an affair. Here are a few things we talk about: What was your experience when you made the decision to end your emotional affair?How...

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What Our Clients Say

"David, I wanted to reach out on behalf of my wife & myself, to thank you for all your help.  Those early days of trauma seemed so long ago.  My wife & I are on our way to building a spiritual partnership now & finally are enjoying moments of joy. I believe you saved our marriage. Both my wife & I have the utmost respect for you & the work you did for us."

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"We both really appreciate your help & guidance through this period in our lives. We wouldn’t be this far along without you. Some days are tougher than others but the direction is right."

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"You asked me questions last night that I have never answered out loud before, so thanks for your patience as I verbally muddled my way through it. I admire your ability to identify patterns in people's behaviour. Thanks for everything."

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"I remain truly grateful for your support as I work toward conquering my fears and insecurities.  Thank you for your patience, persistence, kindness and optimism."

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