At Close Connections we’ve been driven by a passion to help people recover from infidelity for over seventeen years. Company founder and clinical therapist David Feder wants you to know: “Close Connections cares about you and all of our clients”.

When responding to the the crises of an affair, we focus on three primary goals.

1. CRISIS: In the “Crisis” stage we help you recover from the immediate fall-out of discovering the affair.

2. AWARENESS & UNDERSTANDING: In the next stage, “Awareness and Understanding”, we focus on meanings and motives. We also begin to focus on relational empowerment (as opposed to individual empowerment) with your spouse or partner, which sets the stage for the next sep.

3. VISION: And we end in the final stage that I call “Vision”. Here, for those couples who stay together, we help you create the relationship you always wanted to have. For those who choose to end the relationship, our focus is to help you move on from the affair more whole and complete. We base this on VISION, a concept I created that provides the road map for healthy living.

At Close Connections we are committed to reducing residual animosity that exists between you and your spouse. This benefits both you and your children. We consider a divorce rate of more than 40% staggering and we at Close Connections believe that staying together is a real alternative to separation, for those who want to consider that option. For those who choose to separate, we are determined to reduce the number of high-conflict divorces that often accompany infidelity.

Our state-of-the-art Road Map for Recovery (RMR) includes education, insight-oriented therapy, coaching, sensitivity and empowerment. Those who have been through our system grow by becoming the person they always intended to be and many of our alumnae have the life they always hoped to have. We are available when you need us. We do not believe in waiting lists. You will find that our services are provided with the right combination of understanding, compassion and a sincere desire to help you feel better.

You will survive infidelity. You have no choice. The question is how?

Professional Qualifications

  • In Private Practice since 2001 as a therapist and coach trained in helping people and couples survive and thrive after discovery of infidelity
  • Trained with Esther Perel and Terry Real
  • Trained in EMDR and Trauma Counseling, Debriefings and Defusings
  • Certified as a CSAT Therapist
  • Trained as a Forgiveness Trainer

Professional Memberships

  • IITAP (International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals)

Special Assignments

  • September 11, 2001: In New York City and the tri-state area, provided treatment to victims, survivors and family members of victims of the attack on the World Trade Centre
  • Trauma Counsellor: Responsible for de-briefings, de-fusing,s and trauma counseling for victims of bank robberies and witnesses to suicides and attempted suicides

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Successful Outcomes

Close Connections can help you whatever your role in infidelity. Whether you’re trying to recover or just needing a way to share, Close Connections can help.

Free Resources

Knowledge is Power! At Close Connections we believe that the more you know about infidelity, the more control you will have in your recovery.

What Our Clients Say

"David, I wanted to reach out on behalf of my wife & myself, to thank you for all your help.  Those early days of trauma seemed so long ago.  My wife & I are on our way to building a spiritual partnership now & finally are enjoying moments of joy. I believe you saved our marriage. Both my wife & I have the utmost respect for you & the work you did for us."

What Our Clients Say...

"We both really appreciate your help & guidance through this period in our lives. We wouldn’t be this far along without you. Some days are tougher than others but the direction is right."

What Our Clients Say...

"You asked me questions last night that I have never answered out loud before, so thanks for your patience as I verbally muddled my way through it. I admire your ability to identify patterns in people's behaviour. Thanks for everything."

What Our Clients Say...

"I remain truly grateful for your support as I work toward conquering my fears and insecurities.  Thank you for your patience, persistence, kindness and optimism."

What Our Clients Say...

"Thank you for your wonderful email. I get a lot of strength from you. I am happy it’s you that helps me battle my fears and insecurities.  This email will be a great reference for me during my low times."

What Our Clients Say...

"(My husband) and I are doing very well and I am grateful for your help, compassion, support, and time. We have come a very long way and could not have done it without you."

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